This is not love

“A Buddha will not weep because you are in misery, he will help __

he will help you to come out of your misery.

If you are in misery, a sentimental man becomes miserable himself.

He will cry and weep and you will always feel that he loves you very much.

This is not love. He is as ill as you are, if he really cared he would do something,

he would try to change, try to transform you.

Returning To The Source, pp.223-224